Santa Clausis certainly brought up inChristmasconversations atKelly Rowland‘s house, but the man in red doesn’t getallthe credit for gifts.
“He understands that there is a ‘Santa Claus’ but I said Santa only brings him one gift — me and Daddy work too damn hard for Santa to get all the credit, I’m so sorry,” Rowland said.
It’s not all about the presents, though. The formerDestiny’s Childmember also told PEOPLE that Christmas is starting to mean even more, given Titan’s age.
“He’s understood Christmas since he was 3, but 5 is an interesting age and I think he’s starting to understand what Christmas is this year, so we’retrying to do traditions,” she said.
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“It’s always been something that’s been very grounding and a staple foundation in my family,” she said. “I explained it to him last year and he didn’t quite get it, but this year I explained it to him in detail and he was like, ‘Wehave to help him and his family’when we were assigned our family, who we sponsored.”
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For his part, Titan “was very specific about a specific kid” when it came to helping out the organization, Rowland said.
“It was perfect. He’svery dedicated to it,” shesaid. “I feel that part of it is really important. My mom did a good job of teaching us about giving.”
As for the singer’s holiday plans? “I plan to sit on my couch, watch Christmas movies, eat, bake,listen to Christmas music, wallow under the tree,” Rowland told PEOPLE. “I literally sit under the tree and film certain ornaments and reflect on the year.”
source: people.com